PRAISE WHERE PRAISE IS DUE
First of all we would like to thank you whom are reading this, and giving this page and our family your support.
It's you that give this page a meaning and strength, so THANK YOU for
the time and effort we are most humbly and forever grateful.
As parents victimized by the Barnevernet/CPS we must honestly confess
we have not met many professionals that treats us with respect nor shows
much humanity within this system.
We are in fact shocked by the CPS
treatment of us as parents in grief over the loss of our daughter, and
also their completely lack of understanding of our reactions and fight
to get her back.
But we have met some people that stand out from the
rest and seemingly have kept their empathy and sane professional
judgment despite their contact with this inhumane and cruel system. We
think they deserve a rose.
The first one that we both really would like
to give a rose is the court appointed psychologist, Ragnhild.
She showed
a profound interest in giving Aria and us parents a thorough
professional assessment always keeping Arias best interest first.
She
met us in an empathic way and was very understanding towards our grief.
We also felt she understood that our behavior was very influenced by the
trauma and crisis we were exposed to. Last, but not least, she judged
us for whom we are today, not from 10-year old papers.
The last one we
met was Morten, he was present on our visitation with Aria, a
«stand in» for Lene.
He treated us with respect, praised our
interaction with Aria and brought a relaxed atmosphere into a very
difficult, sad and challenging situation.
This is so different from what
we are used to from the other two case-workers that we were completely
taken by surprise.
His presence made the visitation better.
If
people within the CPS system would treat parents and children the way
these two have done, the system could actually be for "the best interest
of the child".So if you read this Ragnhild and Morten, we would like to say a heartfelt «Thank you».
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