NOW AND FOREVER OUR <3 DAUGHTER <3 SEEING ARIA TODAY
The 18 of July
We had our two-hour visitation today with our precious little princess <3
It was again a wonderful meeting and we loved seeing her again. She seems to recognize us and was happy, very talkative and started playing with her mummy shortly after we arrived. We brought soap-bubbles she could play with, and she really thought this was funny. She wanted to put the bubbles into daddy and mommy's mouth, laughing a lot We also brought a book with photos of us and her she can bring to the foster parents. It was really heartbreaking when Aria took the book, pointed at a picture of Vibeke and said "mummy". She seemed quite independent of her confidence-person, and was not in need of any particular support from her.
Actually when the visitation was terminated after two hours, she started crying.
And we doubt anyone can understand and really comprehend how devastating it is to see your own daughter cry and not being allowed to comfort her because the visitation has finished.
We as Arias one and only parents are sure that she also knows there is a special bond between us, she can feel and sense it.
Her temper is much like her father-fearless, active, but her strong headedness she gets from both her parents Even not barnevernet can erase biology, and Aria can feel the connection. So do not make any mistakes-she is OUR daughter and she belongs in OUR family, not in a foster family. Now and forever! <3
Before the visitation, Barnevernet and the police made a huge mistake and the visitation almost cancelled.
The scheduled visitation was cancelled, but first after we actually showed up at the location.
There we were met by the leader of Lørenskog Barnevern Arnfinn Heimstad who explained it and made some excuses.
Suddenly he was not afraid of Arias father any more, very strange we must add.
We had off course been looking forward to the visitation and hardly slept anything the night before.
When we got back home, Barnevernet made a phone call to us where they re-scheduled the visitation to later the same day.
Because the police did not have the time, they hired private security-guards and even paid for our taxi-expenses.
So for the first time they actually cleaned up their own mess, which was a first positive experience.
And also Aria many times during the visitation, so today we are not only full of love towards our dear baby Aria as parents, but also proud parents...
BUT TO BE CLEAR on that WE ARE PROUD parents of ARIA every second and every day, SHE is the result of our love and now and forever will she be the love of our life.